Connecting the Dots – Cat Names, Books, and the 2014 Petties DogTime Pet Blog Awards Open for Nominations

Memorandium-imageI’m always fascinated when something happens to us in life that seems to have a greater purpose, but we don’t always connect the dots or the meaning right away. You know what I mean…fate, synchronicity, destiny… whatever you want to call it. Sometimes it can happen in a split second and sometimes it might take years… which is what happened to me on Sunday when I was doing some writing on the book I am working on about Jazz. Since the book is being written from his point of view, it has caused me to go back into the deep recesses of the life I shared with him, bringing me to a startling past, present, and future moment.

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My sweet Jazz about a month after we got him.

Jazz was born on April 17th in 1998 and came to live with me in July of the same year. While he was a pedigreed cat, I did not get him for his background and I never paid attention to his lineage papers. I filed them away years ago, never giving them a second thought. His name, Jazz (aka Jazzy and Mr. Jazz), came to me several weeks after he lived with us as a result of his happy personality which reminded me of jazz music.

Upon his death last August 28th, I had no intention of bringing another cat into our lives any time soon. I just wasn’t ready emotionally and so when I saw him standing in my office doorway in spirit form the night before Dan and I went to the Global Pet Expo in March, I knew there was something he was trying to tell me, I just didn’t know what. At the point of his visitation I was debating the whole expo in general – I didn’t even know if I wanted to go, but it seemed like he was telling me there was a purpose to it all and that I had to go. Turns out he was right – I might not have been ready for another cat, but another cat was ready for us, patiently waiting at the Imperial Cat booth, like she had been expecting us all along. Just like with Jazz, her name did not come to me right away and when it did, it was like a light bulb went off – Jazmine – a beautiful name that was perfect for her and also honored the memory of Mr. Jazz.

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Yup… there Jazmine was at the Imperial Cat booth… She had that look of, “what took you so long… I’ve been waiting all day for you to come pick me up to bring me to my new furever home!”

Anyhow, back to the discussion of fate – as a result of writing the book, I needed to look something up on Jazz’s birth papers and I was shocked at what I saw – his mother’s name was Jazzy Jasmine! Now I know this isn’t earth shattering news, but it really rocked my world because that was the first I time I had seen it and it reinforced to me more than ever that Jazz did not die in vain, that Jazmine was meant to be, and the story I am writing about his life was also meant to be.

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The photo image I did to honor Mr. Jazz for his tribute post.

The tribute post I wrote to him after his passing continues to be my guiding light for the book – so many people who have lost a pet reached out to me in gratitude that my words had helped them with their own grieving process and that is why I want the story told from Jazz’s point of view – so that people can feel the emotion of an animal communicating to a guardian that they are ready to cross to the Bridge. The post is clearly bittersweet for me, but I am extremely proud of it and have a favor to ask you if you think it is worthy – the prestigious Dog Time Pettie Awards are upon us once again and I am graciously asking all of you – my dear friends, family, and fans if you might consider nominating the post in the Best Blog Post category.

I truly don’t like asking because it really is such a long process and every year I debate if I want to participate. But, the fact of the matter is, if Zee & Zoey’s blog wins an award, we will get a $1,000 donation for a shelter or rescue of our choice and that’s not something we can let pass by. We would donate the money in honor of Mr. Jazz to our favorite organization, Pawsitively Humane, Inc. that was founded by our dear friend and animal lover, Christine Michaels of Riverfront Cats.

logo-2014-4c889ea8ae82c941f8e1b34278b9f285Here’s the scoop – there are several Pettie categories and not all of them are cat related. Nominations are done by our supporters and are not judged by a panel of peers. You can vote once a day throughout the month of June and you don’t have to vote for the same blog each time. If you want to share your love with your other favorite blogs, please do so! We would love your support for Best Blog Post and we also feel we fit in the categories of Best Cat Blog and Best Designed Blog (a blogger can actually win more than one category).

I think you know by now that we try really hard to bring you entertaining and informative posts that go above and beyond the norm all year-long. Once the nominees are selected, then the official voting process will begin on July 5th and voting will be allowed once a day through until July 31st. Please click here to see all the categories and for voting details – to make it easier, just consider voting something like brushing your teeth in the morning…. make it part of your routine then get on with the day!

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I personally don’t like asking for votes from you all, but Jazmine has no problem with it whatsoever!

Good luck to everyone – I would not be unhappy at all to see any one of my talented, dedicated, and hard-working blogging friends win an award – I mean really, how can you argue with any shelter winning $1000 to help out animals in need!!

Jazz post url:  https://zeezoey.com/blog/a-tribute-to-mr-jazz-the-dignity-of-life-and-death-and-finding-the-beauty-in-letting-go/

Zee and Zoey blog url: https://www.zeezoey.com/blog

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  1. Diane Ricciardi Stewart says:

    Oh wow. . that is just way too cool about Jazz, Jasmine and Jazzy Jasmine!! It was truly meant to be. . I can relate to that. My first female cat who was with me for literally half my life at the time I had her, taught me that I was to ALWAYS be “Mom Cat”. . I truly believe she had a paw in the adoption/rescue of my current 11 kitties. I will try to get over to nominate your page. . .Good luck!! lubs ya!! from myself and Vegeta & the Ricciardi Clan (SMC). ..

  2. Connie Marie says:

    Wow, all the pieces that fit together, you seeing Jazz, going when you doubted it, finding and adopting Jazmine, then seeing Jazz’ mothers name! Truly amazing and meant to be.
    I’ve seen 2 of my pets who went to the bridge, I swear they were saying goodbye and trying to help me cope. I bet your new book will be a winner for sure!

  3. what a wonderful piece of information to learn about Jazz 🙂

  4. da tabbies o trout towne says:

    we will bee mor N happee ta due thiz….N we canna wait ta reed dood jazz’z book ♥♥♥♥♥

  5. Carolyn says:

    Jazmine’s coming to you and her naming is quite remarkable! Will get voting 🙂

  6. Uh oh…..I have voted almost everyday and have been asked to log in each day (via e-mail). Got to thinking that I don’t remember having to log in everyday to vote in the past (though I could be totally wrong)…so I thought I’d try logging in via FB….when I hit the “log in with FB” button it thanked me for my vote…..only I didn’t vote I was simply trying to log in. *scratches head* Any idea Deb? Oh…and GOOD LUCK!!

    • Deb says:

      Hey Toni! Thank you for the support! As far as FB… I know if you vote too early, it considers that you already voted for the day – meaning if you typically vote around 6 pm, if you vote earlier than 6 pm the next day, it already considers your vote from yesterday… Does that make sense? Basically, you have to vote around the same time each day!

  7. Oh my CAT. Jazzy Jasmine! That’s – simply wonderful.

  8. Bernadette says:

    Good luck, my friend! Every year it’s a quandary, do we ask our friends and readers to go and click for us each and every day, but in the end it’s always really for the memories and the good of others.

  9. Rhonda Jones says:

    Jazz’s story did help me so much w my grief for Pecheecho who died June 6 2012. I’ve just celebrated the anniversary of his death and am about to celebrate the adoption anniversary of the cat he led me to, who coincidently is named Jasmine! Her actual name was Jazmine, but I changed the spelling of her name, without changing the sound, as I wanted to signify that she had a new life. I still call her my Jazzy Girl though!

    So, it recently hit me that for the longest time, I’ve been treating my Jazzy as if she is a second rate kitty or some kind of consolation prize. As a now 10 year old shelter cat, she has never been as affectionate as Pecheecho was and of course our bond is slightly different. I realize that I need to start treating her like she is First Prize and not some sort of cheap replacement for the kitty I loved so much. After all, Pecheecho led me to this kitty, she is his present to me. Once I made a conscious effort to be more grateful for her presence in my life, she became way more loving back to me.
    So, I wondered if you or anyone else went thru this..where you did get another cat, but you had a hard time feeling truly bonded to that cat due to missing the cat who died? Its been a long 2 years of grief for me and I still feel Pecheecho’s presence, but then again, Jazzy is now 10 yrs old herself, so I don’t want to let too much time pass without appreciating the love she has to offer me, because soon I may be grieving for her as well.

    • Deb says:

      Rhonda – I have been in your situation before and think your feelings are quite normal. We don’t like to say that we have favorites, but some cats touch our hearts differently than others and that is just human nature. It doesn’t mean that you don’t love Jazzy, you just share a different relationship with her. And it seems that perhaps Pecheecho has taught you the greatest lesson of all – that life is fleeting and that we need to appreciate what we have while we can. Thank you for opening up – it helps keep my own Jazz alive in my heart and I am grateful that he was able to help you with your own grieving process.