Remembering My Sweet Harley – Gone But Never Forgotten

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My beautiful, sweet, darling girl. I had to say goodbye to you far sooner than I ever imagined I would and I can’t believe a year has already gone by since I last held you in my arms, desperately willing for a miracle so I would not have to let you go.

Try as I might, I still find it so very hard to reconcile your sudden loss, and for that I apologize, because sometimes blocking it all out makes it easier. But I don’t want you to think I don’t care or that you weren’t important. The times we shared were ever so precious and you were such a good girl. Not a mean bone in your pleasantly plump body and your wishes and needs were truly so simple.

Breakfast, dinner, a snack, and lying next to my side, whether on the couch at night when I was watching TV or at my side when I went to bed – that’s all you ever needed to be happy and content. Toys, bugs, lizards, and cat condos – you wanted none of that. And on those rare occasions when you would chase the red dot from the laser pen with the other cats, even you seemed surprised that you were doing it!

I love you and miss you so, so much. I pray you are at peace with Mr. Jazz and all the other cats and dogs that have been part of my heart and home in years past. You remain a part of me – I think of you everyday and I thank you for being a part of my life.

xoxox

Mom

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A final note – if any of you were complementing the purchase of Purr Prints of the Heart, it would mean the world to me if perhaps you would consider doing it between now and the end of June. Harley might not be with me any longer, but that does not mean she can’t be the harbinger for helping shelter cats that are here who need our love, help, and donations. Harley was a shelter cat and on behalf of Adopt a Shelter Cat Month, in tribute to her, 10% of the proceeds will be going to Advocates 4 Animals for any sales made in June. Harley was the calendar cat cover girl for in 2013 for Advocates 4 Animals and Purr Prints truly is a lovely story that any cat lover will appreciate. There is also a special chapter at the end of the book in memoriam to Harley.

Thank you – for more information on the book and purchasing options, please click here.

Now if you’ll all excuse me, I really must go. This was not easy for me, but in respect to my sweet girl, I would like to share a few pictures in her memory…

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Harley used to like to look at life from the inside looking out. She was not the bravest cat in the world and always liked to watch the others from afar!

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Harley loved napping on this homemade bed that my dear friend, Liz Wyman, made for her.

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When Dan took this image of Harley in 2013, I never imagined she would be gone a year later. I had saved the photo, never sharing it until now, as I had originally thought I would used it for a Valentine post because it has such a romantic, vintage look to it.

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Harley didn’t like to play much, but she did have her goofy moments!

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Harley shares some couch time with Zoey and Mia back in 2010.

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A reflective moment looking out her favorite window. This photo is so vivid, I can almost feel her hair.

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Harley and Jazz – more so than any of the other cats, they had been through everything together!

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An incredibly special picture – the whole gang – Rolz, Peanut, Zoey, Kizmet, Mia, Jazmine, Zee, and Harley peeking from behind me.

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Sharing some time with Harley and Kizmet. Kizmet, more so than any other the other cats, really mourned the loss of his buddy Harley. Me too, Kizmet, me too…

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  1. Such a beautiful tribute to a beautiful kitty <3

    (((purrs)))

  2. Rosemary says:

    Anniversaries are always hard. I hold every pet I have ever lost close to my heart. I understand how you feel!

  3. Lesley says:

    Hi Deborah,

    I’m new to your blog, and have laughed and cried to see your photos of beautiful Harley.

    When my very precious Burmese girl, Fezzie, died a few years ago, I felt just that loss and grief you describe, and the memories and photos bring great comfort. She was a very timid girl too, with the simplest of needs and a heart full of love – and your description of your bond with Harley resonates with me so much.

    I have three beautiful girls – Bonnie, a 7 year old Tortie; Bella, a three year old Norwegian Forest cat and Dorrie, the 9 month old black beauty who has won all our hearts since she joined the family.

    Thanks for sharing your precious photos and memories of Harley…

    • Deb says:

      Hi Lesley – Very nice to meet you. Thank you for stopping by and I am so glad you enjoy the blog.

      Harley was such a sweet girl – I miss her so very much and my heart goes out to you regarding your precious Fezzie. I am glad that Harley’s photos and memories have given you some comfort.