{"id":8506,"date":"2013-01-26T05:50:46","date_gmt":"2013-01-26T10:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/?p=8506"},"modified":"2021-03-05T09:13:02","modified_gmt":"2021-03-05T14:13:02","slug":"how-does-a-mother-cat-understand-time-zoey-shares-her-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/how-does-a-mother-cat-understand-time-zoey-shares-her-story\/","title":{"rendered":"How Does a Mother Cat Understand Time? Zoey Shares Her Story&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_8507\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/zz-sleeping.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8507\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8507 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: #81AA55 3px solid;\" title=\"zz-sleeping\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/zz-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"345\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/zz-sleeping.jpg 460w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/zz-sleeping-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8507\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This was the happy couple, Zee and Zoey, in the early stages of their relationship when life was carefree and they did not have the responsibility of a family to take care of&#8230;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Last week I shared a very intriguing topic about cats and the concept of past, present, and future. As in, do cats have the capacity to think and remember in those terms, and the overwhelming response was, yes, they do. You all shared some great comments and stories about cats in your life which got me to thinking about the subject in greater depth, in particular with the behavior of my beloved, Zoey.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Zoey had a litter of kittens at a young age and when they were born she rejected them for a brief amount of time, not quite comprehending or caring that they were her responsibility. It was like in her mind she was still\u00a0 a teenager \u2013 after she gave birth, she literally instantly remembered being young, carefree, and unencumbered by the weight of four babies growing in her belly.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8508\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Finally-settled-down.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8508\" class=\" wp-image-8508 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: #81AA55 3px solid;\" title=\"Finally-settled-down\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Finally-settled-down.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"357\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Finally-settled-down.jpg 989w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Finally-settled-down-300x232.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8508\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Once the notion of parenting sunk in, Zoey was a warm, caring, loving, devoted, and fiercely protective Mama. Her happy, healthy, and content kittens were 6 weeks old in this picture.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>She wanted to recapture that point in her life and it was that simple. I had to stay by her side to make certain she took care of her kittens and thankfully once the light bulb went off in her head and she connected the dots that these babies were not only hers, but it was her job to take care of them, she was a fiercely devoted, loyal, loving, and protective Mama.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8509\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Mom-so-tired.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8509\" class=\" wp-image-8509 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: #81AA55 3px solid;\" title=\"Mom-so-tired\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Mom-so-tired.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Mom-so-tired.jpg 900w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Mom-so-tired-300x256.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8509\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Our normally calm, cool, collected, elegant, and beautiful Zoey looks completely frazzled and worn out due to the non-stop shenanigans of her high-energy kittens. The kittens were about 7 weeks here and it wears me out just looking at this picture, remembering just how much time and effort goes into raising kittens!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>That is until week 10 when she had a parental meltdown. Somehow her internal clock told her that it was time for the kittens to pack their furry little bags and leave. As with animals in the wild who raise their offspring with the intention that they will be leaving the nest to survive on their own, that was what happened to her. In her mind, she had taught them how to groom themselves, play, eat solid foods, and use the litter box, so she had done her motherly duties. Not to mention, she had already weaned them and was none to\u00a0pleased to have them latch on to her nipples for an occasional warm and comforting snack.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8512\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Grumpy-Zee.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8512\" class=\" wp-image-8512 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: #81AA55 3px solid;\" title=\"Grumpy-Zee\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Grumpy-Zee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Grumpy-Zee.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Grumpy-Zee-300x202.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8512\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This sour puss was how Zee looked during the first 3 months after Zoey gave birth to the kittens. He now loves his babies unconditionally, but back then he resented their presence and the time Zoey spent with them instead of him.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Let&#8217;s face it, they were nonstop bundles of 24\/7 exhausting responsibility and she had enough. Time for kitty college and to find a job is what she was thinking. Zee was virtually nonexistent as a parent and it was her who took care of these high-energy kittens while he stayed in the background sulking because he missed his svelte and high-spirited partner.<\/p>\n<p>Prior to the point of her having her meltdown, we had given one of the four kittens away to a dear friend (the infamous Zeuss Catt) and I was truly worried how she would react when she found out one of them was missing. Zoey could absolutely count to four, she knew where her kittens were at ALL times, and I felt she would react in a very traumatic way searching for her \u201clost kitten.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8510\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Youre-still-here.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8510\" class=\" wp-image-8510 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: #81AA55 3px solid;\" title=\"You're-still-here\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Youre-still-here.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"345\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Youre-still-here.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Youre-still-here-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8510\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This is literally Zoey saying, &#8220;Seriously, you&#8217;re still here? I&#8217;ve done my part to raise you, now it&#8217;s time to pack your bags and go!&#8221; On a side note, don&#8217;t these precious kittens just melt your heart!?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Well, the surprise was on me. Not only did she not miss Zeuss or look for him, but she began to resent the other three kittens that we had decided to keep and growled at them any time they were within her eyesight to leave her alone. Being typical children, they of course ignored her growls and continued to love her and follow her all about the house. Zoey was their Mama and they remained blissfully ignorant of her resentment. (To follow is\u00a0our classic video of Zoey growling at her babies which inspired\u00a0Chapter 18 of\u00a0 the book, The Chronicles of Zee &amp; Zoey, aptly titled &#8220;The Queen has Spoken &#8211; Off With Their Heads!&#8221;\u00a0)<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mTGi5MHHbZA?rel=0\" width=\"460\" height=\"259\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>As time went on, Zoey came to understand the kittens were staying and she now accepts that with a motherly pride. She does growl now and again at them, but it is typically reserved for those moments when she does not want them to share space on the couch with me. It should be known as well that her growls are completely harmless and merely a form of communication. She has NEVER, EVER hurt her babies and she still grooms them and lovingly plays with them and there is no question they know she is Mama and they ADORE her. Life had settled into a comfortable pattern for Zoey and all was well&#8230; until last November when Kizmet, a 4 month old bundle of energy and\u00a0unfamiliar\u00a0blood and fur appeared out of nowhere into our peaceful household.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8514\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/KizmetNap.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8514\" class=\" wp-image-8514 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: 3px solid #81aa55;\" title=\"KizmetNap\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/KizmetNap.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"239\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/KizmetNap.jpg 800w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/KizmetNap-300x155.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8514\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kizmet brought the maternal instinct out of Zoey just a few scant days after she met him. She continues to love him like one of her own and he absolutely considers her his Mama.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Zoey did not instantly like Kizmet, but a few short days later after meeting him, that light bulb went off in her head again and it was clear she remembered mothering her four kittens and she began to assume that role with Kizmet. I find this incredibly fascinating because not only does it signify to me that she has a memory, but it is amazing just how intuitive animals are in the scheme of the natural order of life.<\/p>\n<p>As many of you know, the\u00a0ideal age to adopt a kitten is around 10 weeks of age after it has been properly weaned by Mama cat and socialized to people. That a mother cat can understand that 10 weeks have gone by and\u00a0it is time for\u00a0her kittens to leave the nest is incredible. Even more incredible,\u00a0once Zoey comprehended that they were indeed\u00a0staying, she has accepted that change in nature and fully embraced them. She knows the difference between the love of her life, Zee, her babies, Kizmet, and the older cats, Harley and Jazz, and interacts with all of them in respectfully unique ways (as do they with her and each other). Animals do all this without the aid of books, doctors, the Internet, or anything else other than instinct to know how to properly interact, compromise, survive, and thrive. I guess the real test would be, how would Zoey have reacted if Kizmet were a full grown cat instead of a kitten, or if her long lost son, Zeuss, came to visit? Somehow I don&#8217;t think she would be quite as loving or gracious&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_8536\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ZoeyMiaPeanutZee.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8536\" class=\" wp-image-8536 \" style=\"margin: 1px; border: 3px solid #81aa55;\" title=\"ZoeyMiaPeanutZee\" src=\"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ZoeyMiaPeanutZee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"660\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ZoeyMiaPeanutZee.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ZoeyMiaPeanutZee-209x300.jpg 209w, https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ZoeyMiaPeanutZee-713x1024.jpg 713w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-8536\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This photo of Zoey and her daughter Mia was taken yesterday. You can clearly see that she still assumes the role of Mama as she hugs Mia while grooming her. Looking on is Peanut and Zee.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #008000;\">So many of you have thanked me for bringing up topics about cat behavior that evokes deeper thought and I really enjoy the comments and conversation I get on the blog from you all. If you want to explore the mind of a cat further in depth, particularly the relationship between a mother cat and her kittens, I encourage you to pick up a copy of The Chronicles of Zee &amp; Zoey if you have not already done so. Not only is the book filled with page after page of our trademark gorgeous photos, but the story really showcases the incredible relationship and communicative ability that cats have not only with one another, but with people. The story is warm, honest, humorous, touching, and very inspirational. So, if you have enjoyed reading about my family of cats through the blog, you will really enjoy reading about their very special love story. If you are interested, please <a href=\"http:\/\/www.zeezoey.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">click here <\/a>for details.<\/span> <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I shared a very intriguing topic about cats and the concept of past, present, and future. As in, do cats have the capacity to think and remember in those terms, and the overwhelming response was, yes, they do. 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