{"id":18986,"date":"2018-10-21T00:10:47","date_gmt":"2018-10-21T04:10:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/?p=18986"},"modified":"2018-12-30T15:43:37","modified_gmt":"2018-12-30T20:43:37","slug":"understanding-the-mystery-of-why-cats-dont-like-us-to-close-the-bathroom-door","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/understanding-the-mystery-of-why-cats-dont-like-us-to-close-the-bathroom-door\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding the Mystery of Why Cats Don’t Like Us to Close the Bathroom Door"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Close the door? How dare you!<\/p><\/div>\n

Bathrooms are meant to be that one scared and intimate place in our home where we can shut the door and retreat from the world to our own blessed sanctuary of aloneness and privacy. Unless you have cats, of course. There is literally nothing that will make a cat magically appear from thin air to break that privacy code than a closed bathroom door. You\u2019ll hear that mournful, repeated, and frantic \u201cMeeoooooooooowww\u201d<\/em> in tangent with a paw, paw, paw, dig, dig, dig under the door and a scratch, scratch, scratch on the door.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhere are you? When are you coming out? What are you doing in there without me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably been in the bathroom less than 10 seconds, but to your cat, it would seem as if you\u2019ve had the door shut for hours, the waiting is so tortuous. Why do cats do that? What\u2019s the big deal to them to have a door shut that\u2019s normally open? Especially when history tends to prove that the door won\u2019t remain shut and that you\u2019ll open it to come out again.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s probably the simple fact they\u2019re insatiably curious and can\u2019t stand not knowing the unknown. Even a room they\u2019ve been in and out of for years – it only takes the door being closed once or twice before they get the idea the closed door could mean some sort of change. Add in the fact we\u2019re in the room behind the closed door, doing things they want to know about, and it builds up a fascination.<\/p>\n

Many cats are fascinated with bathrooms in general and perhaps they consider the closed door an affront to what they consider is their<\/em> personal territory and sanctuary, not ours. I know my cats think our master bathroom is theirs because it\u2019s one of their favorite hangout spots. We no longer have a door for them to contend with as it broke years ago, but they still insist I can\u2019t be alone in the room without one of them sharing the space with me, and even when I\u2019m not in the room, there\u2019s always a cat sleeping on the hamper we keep in the corner.<\/p>\n

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Zee and Zoey as the reigning King and Queen of the Hamper Kingdom.<\/p><\/div>\n

The rotation changes \u2013 sometimes it\u2019s Zee, or Zee and Zoey together – lately, it\u2019s been Jazmine. And because there\u2019s a litter box in the room too, they also insist if I\u2019m going, they\u2019re going as well, regardless of whether or not they really need to. It seems to be a bonding moment between us and Zee even takes it a step further.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t how he knows I\u2019m in the bathroom because when I walk in he\u2019s not there, but within seconds he\u2019ll be there, using the box of cat litter next to the toilet as a step stool to reach me where he plunks into my lap. It\u2019s an awkward climb for him and inconvenient for me, but because I love him so much and adore our time together, there we sit. And sit. And sit. He curls into my lap as pleased as can be (I can feel his body give me that contented sigh, signifying he\u2019s fully relaxed) and we\u2019d be there all day if I let him.<\/p>\n

\u201cHello. Yes, it\u2019s me, Deb. I\u2019m going to be late. My cat\u2019s napping on my lap in the bathroom. It\u2019s a bonding thing with us and I can\u2019t move him.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s me calling work\u2026somehow I don\u2019t think the reasoning would fly.<\/p>\n

Some like to curl into the sink while I\u2019m showering and Rolz likes to sit on the vanity counter, intently watching me put on my makeup, cheering me on with some \u201cmeow\u201d conversation. And probably the most significant bathroom moment was a couple years ago when my otherwise brutally shy \u201cdon\u2019t-you-dare-touch-or-pet-me\u201d cat, Mia, jumped up onto my toweled head after I got out of the shower and settled in for a deep nap, purring, and making biscuits into the towel.<\/p>\n

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Yes, that’s Mia napping on my head. And yes, despite how uncomfortable it was for me, I let her stay there for quite a while…<\/p><\/div>\n

That was the morning the idea for my now three-time award-winning book, Makin\u2019 Biscuits \u2013 Weird Cat Habits and the Even Weirder Habits of the Humans Who Love Them<\/em> was born. This particular habit of Mia\u2019s lasted several weeks, but more interestingly, it somehow broke her aversion to human contact and she now religiously naps on my outstretched legs at night when I\u2019m relaxing on the couch to watch TV.<\/p>\n

So why all the odd bathroom etiquette? In the case of Zee who rarely sits on my lap in other spots of the house (although he does sleep on my head at night) the answer might simply be, because he got my undivided attention the first time he sat on my lap while I was on the toilet and was rewarded with petting and loving conversation, he associated that as a positive experience and it became a habit. Bathrooms are typically a small room – from a cat\u2019s perspective, you\u2019re a captive audience, with little opportunity to escape, so they give it a shot.<\/p>\n

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Sinks – they seem to be made specifically with cats in mind, what with their contoured shape and cozy size.<\/p><\/div>\n

As far as sinks, it\u2019s a relatively common behavior – whether it\u2019s the cool surface or the contoured shape that\u2019s suited for a cat\u2019s body – they\u2019re just drawn to them. It could also be a fascination with water – some cats find drinking from a dripping faucet thoroughly entertaining. It might also be instinctual. For example, years ago after Mia and Peanut were spayed and I brought them home from the vet, I put comfortable bedding on the bedroom floor for them to recover. I didn\u2019t want them jumping up onto the bed while still woozy from the operation, but both bee-lined to the bathroom sinks, as the sinks probably simulated a cave or den to them \u2013 a place to safely hide from predators and danger while in a weakened state.<\/p>\n

Thankfully, we don\u2019t have much in the way of danger most days in our bathroom. Maybe an unlucky bug or lizard that\u2019s found its way into the room. But clearly, we have cats on guard to take care of that\u2026<\/p>\n

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Our bathroom is also where those poor, unsuspecting plush toys find themselves after being stalked and preyed upon. Thank goodness we are safe from the evils of Angry Bird.<\/p><\/div>\n

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For more on the fascinating subject of feline behavior, consider reading my three-time award-winning book, Makin\u2019 Biscuits \u2013 Weird Cat Habits and the Even Weirder Habits of the Human Who Love Them.<\/em> It\u2019s all about what makes a cat tick – the how\u2019s and why\u2019s of what our cats do \u2013 such as why they hide toys around the house, steal food from our plates or seek out boxes to nap in. For more information, please click here.<\/a><\/p>\n

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Makin’ Biscuits – Weird Cat Habits and the Even Weirder Habits of the Humans Who Love Them.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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