{"id":13463,"date":"2014-10-02T04:50:03","date_gmt":"2014-10-02T08:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/?p=13463"},"modified":"2014-10-01T20:13:19","modified_gmt":"2014-10-02T00:13:19","slug":"a-special-farewell-to-a-friend-mentor-writer-and-animal-lover-lorie-huston-dvm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zeezoey.com\/blog\/a-special-farewell-to-a-friend-mentor-writer-and-animal-lover-lorie-huston-dvm\/","title":{"rendered":"A Special Farewell to a Friend, Mentor, Writer, and Animal Lover – Lorie Huston, DVM"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"goodbye-lorie\"<\/a>Being that I am heavily involved in the Cat Writers\u2019 Association <\/a>(CWA) and in light of the fact our annual conference will be held at the end of this month, it is not unusual to get a lot of email blasts this time of year about one thing or another. So, when I saw a message in my inbox from CWA Vice President, Dusty Rainbolt on Tuesday, I barely glanced at the subject heading and just opened it, expecting to see something about the conference. Instead, I, along with the whole CWA membership, got the completely unexpected news that Lorie Huston, DVM,\u00a0 and our CWA President was in the hospital, critically ill due to complications from liver failure.<\/p>\n

Needless to say, I was devastated by the news and like everyone else, I did my best to send positive thoughts her way and prayed for her recovery. That was at 12:18 pm. At 5:12 pm the follow-up email came \u2013 at 4:25 pm Lorie had lost the battle and her life ended on September 30, 2014. It was at that very moment as all of us opened that email that a collective gasp of shock and profound grief traveled throughout the pet loving world as we tried to process what made no sense at all to us.<\/p>\n

For me, just like many others, I have numerous special memories of Lorie because that is how she made you feel. Whether in person, on the telephone, or through email correspondence, she always made the time for you and made you feel like you really mattered. Nothing about Lorie was trite and she treated everyone with respect. I daresay there is not one person who ever knew her that could say anything negative about her and she was one of the most fair-minded, kind, compassionate, and genuine people I have ever known.<\/p>\n

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Such a happy moment – how was I to know this would be the last time I saw Lorie? This was us at the Cat Writers’ Conference last year and she was hugging me for winning the prestigious title of Writer of the Year by Friskies\/Purina.<\/p><\/div>\n

Thinking back, I was surprised at just how large a part of my life she was \u2013 I met her in 2011 at my first CWA conference in White Plains and we were sitting next to one another at dinner, chatting about writing. I was a complete newbie to the arena and felt like a fish out of water wondering how or why I was sitting next to a veterinarian, social media specialist<\/a>, and cat care expert, having a conversation with her like I knew anything at all.<\/p>\n

She, of course, put me completely at ease and talked to me in her gentle voice like I was the most important person in the world. I told her what my book, The Chronicles of Zee\u00a0& Zoey<\/em><\/a> was about, and she told me she was working on a book about raising and caring for Labrador Retrievers (the book, Labrador Retrievers: How to Be Your Dog’s Best Friend,<\/em> was subsequently published in 2012 \u2013 click here<\/a> to read details or to order).<\/p>\n

It was in 2012 when Lorie and I really started to connect \u2013 it was the beginning of the year and that was when the whole Loews Portofino Resort battle versus the feral cats residing on the property controversy began. I had done a whole series of blog posts and videos (with Christine Michaels of\u00a0Riverfront Cats<\/a>)\u00a0about the situation, focusing primarily on dispelling the myths of feral cats and touting the virtues of TNR. She reached out to me via email one day \u2013 she wanted me to do a radio pod cast with her on Animal Cafe<\/a> about the whole thing and I was flabbergasted. She had already done a blog post<\/a> on her Pet Health Care Gazette<\/a> site featuring the videos Christine and I had done and now she wanted to interview me.<\/p>\n

This was my first real podcast and I was a wreck \u2013 it was all still so new for me and I am quite shy by nature which is why I prefer to write to express myself. Prior to the Loews situation I didn’t even know what a feral cat was and learning about TNR and cat overpopulation was something I was just beginning to comprehend. Why on earth would she want me to talk on behalf of the subject? But she did. She respected me and she knew my concern for these cats and raising awareness on TNR was thoroughly researched and genuine.<\/p>\n

I, of course, was a bumbling, rambling speaker, being that speaking is not my forte, but I did the best I could, managing to sound somewhat authoritative on occasion and Lorie was a doll about the whole thing (click here <\/a>to listen to the podcast – the link is at the very end of the post) and it was from that point that Lorie and I really hit it off and it seemed that no matter what conference we attended throughout the years \u2013 from CWA to Barkworld to BlogPaws \u2013 that we always ended up sitting next to one another at breakfast, lunch, or dinner.<\/p>\n

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Lorie and I both won Pettie Awards in 2012 and as a result of that, I was invited to speak about a rescue promotion I was working on while attending Barkworld. Lorie was in the audience to cheer me on and I was grateful for her support!<\/p><\/div>\n

It was during those talks that you found the true passion\u00a0and personality in Lorie and it was never about her \u2013 it was always about how can we help make the world a better place for animals and she never, ever participated in the politics and fur-flying antics that can sometimes be part of a large and devoted group of animal loving people who have no problem expressing their opinions! This was especially true in her role as president of the CWA \u2013 on occasion there might be an issue or two that caused friction. She always stepped in \u2013 quickly, firmly, and with an arsenal of grace, fairness, class, and tact to put an end to it.<\/p>\n

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This was Lorie, Janiss Garza (Sparkle Cat), and I during a panel discussion at last year’s CWA conference called “Doing It All Without Pulling Your Hair Out!” Ironically, we had thought the panel was canceled and found out at the last minute that we had a room full of people waiting for us to speak, so we all pulled together and just winged it as best we could!<\/p><\/div>\n

She and I also participated in a campaign for a pet food company together that also caused a lot of controversy in our blogs \u2013 again, rising to the occasion, she was a beacon for empathy and fairness and handled the critics with appropriate dignity, professionalism and aplomb, all while respecting their differing opinions.<\/p>\n

So, who was Lorie Huston? A friend, a leader, a mentor, a champion of animals, and a kind, decent, and caring human being who didn’t have a mean or vindictive bone in her body. Most of us knew her for her love of writing and animals, so that is how I thought I should close this blog post\u00a0 as I let her tell you who she was in her own words from this post I came across that she wrote on August 19, 2014, when she was asked by CWA founder, Amy Shojai<\/a>, to participate in one of those \u201cWhy I like to write tours<\/a>\u201d that have been circulating:<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been thinking for the past few weeks about what I wanted to say about why I write. I actually had a blog post written that basically said that I write because I love writing. And, that\u2019s true, I do. But it goes deeper than that. I didn\u2019t fully understand that until I attended the Women in the Pet Industry Network (WIPIN) conference over the past few days.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

For those of you not familiar with WIPIN, it\u2019s an incredible group of women. I knew that before I even attended the conference. But what I didn\u2019t realize was just how dedicated these women really are, to their own goals and to each other.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve attended a number of other conferences, both veterinary conferences and blogging\/social media conferences. And they have all been useful and educational in their own way. But something was different about this conference. There was no competitiveness, no \u201ccattiness\u201d (forgive the pun). There was an overwhelming sense of coming together to help each other. The two most common questions asked at this conference were \u201cWhat can I do for you?\u201d and \u201cHow can we work together to reach a mutual goal?\u201d That was something totally different than I had ever experienced before at a conference.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

In listening to all the women gathered at this conference, I realized that we had one thing in common. We each had a dream, a goal which we wished to achieve. And I realized that I do too. My dream, the goal which I wish to achieve is to be able to provide all pet owners with the information they need to make sure their pets are properly cared for, while also creating a successful business\/career around that concept.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I knew that on some level going in but somehow attending this conference helped solidify that. And I realized, I write as a means to achieving that goal. Yes, I do enjoy writing. But writing is only one tool in my arsenal. And whether the tool that is being used is a post or article that I\u2019ve written, a podcast I\u2019ve done, a webinar I\u2019ve participated in, a lecture I\u2019ve presented, a panel I\u2019ve sat on, an interview I\u2019ve completed, or some other form of communication, it all goes back to that original goal.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

That, in a nutshell, is why I write. It\u2019s part of an overall strategy to educate and engage.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

She ended the post by naming three other people to carry on the \u201cWhy I write\u201d tradition and I was floored and humbled to read this:<\/p>\n

And now I have to name three others to, hopefully, carry on this tradition. None of these ladies knew ahead of time I was going to tap them because, honestly, I didn\u2019t know who I was going to tap until the last minute. So I apologize for putting them on the spot. But they are all women I admire and respect, and each also has a goal toward which she is working in which her writing takes an active part.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

The first is Mary Haight, of Dancing Dog Blog. I\u2019ve had the pleasure of working with Mary on several occasions. She is a dedicated professional. She has been involved in animal welfare for over 15 years, working with horses, dogs, and cats, and serves on two boards in Chicago. Her blog is nominated as a finalist for the Best Dog Blog prize in the 2014 Dogtime Petties Awards.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Deborah Barnes is a fellow Cat Writers\u2019 Association member and the force behind the beautiful blog Zee and Zoey as well as the author of The Chronicles of Zee & Zoey \u2013 A Journey of the Extraordinarily Ordinary. Her blog as well as her book follows the everyday journey she shares with her cats, but her blog also covers topics from the humorous behaviors of cats to very serious subjects on pet responsibility.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

The third and final woman I would like to tap is Christine Michaels, also a fellow member of the Cat Writers\u2019 Association. Christine is an amazing woman; smart, talented, beautiful (inside and out!), always to willing to offer advice. Her blog, Riverfront Cats, focuses on rescuing stray cats, protecting community cats, and embracing black cats.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I have been so busy and embroiled in my own life, that I did not even know she had tagged me and now I will never be able to thank her and tell her how much I admired and respected her as well. But I think she will forgive me \u2013 that was just how she was \u2013 and I do hope we can read between the lines from her\u00a0heartfelt sentiments\u00a0and learn from her to be more helpful and considerate of one another. Clearly we know that life is fleeting and all we have is the moment in front of us – let’s learn from her example and try to be kinder, gentler, and more tolerant people as it makes the world a far better place to be.<\/p>\n

I will miss you dearly Lorie and all I can say is that you have touched the hearts of so many. You were a true role model \u2013 beautiful inside and out and just like my darling cat, Harley, who was taken from me far too quickly in June of this year for no reason that I can reconcile, the same is true of you. I pray you find one other and that she comforts you with her loud and rumbling purrs and that you comfort her with your kind words and gentle touch\u2026<\/p>\n

If any of you have a special Lorie story, please feel free to share in the comments.<\/p>\n

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Side note – this is Dillon and he is one of Lorie’s six cats that will now need to be re-homed. Lorie lived in Rhode Island and if anyone can help with adoption, fostering, transport, or monetary donations please email me at dbarnes@zeezoey.com and I will pass the information on to the appropriate party.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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